Positive Parenting
Posted by Tina Cannon PhD LMHC in Parenting on 27-11-2009
Your main job as a parent is to nurture growth and change in your child, as well as to give guidance, encouragement and support. When your child is a newborn, they depend on you for food, protection and health care. It may be difficult for you to imagine them ever growing up and changing, but they will and part of your job is to welcome and nurture the growth in your child. They will grow physically, emotionally and spiritually and they will need you to guide them to be a healthy, mature individual.
Four suggestions to being a successful parent and add to your natural parenting skills to give your child the best start are as follows:
Show Your Love: Little ones do not always understand the words “I love you” but they do connect with smiles, hugs and kisses, playing and singing. Pay attention to your child by listening and watching them which makes them feel special and secure. This also helps build a good foundation for self-esteem.
Be A Good Example:
Children will imitate their parents as a way to show their love for you. Your child learns how to behave, develop new skills and take care of themselves from watching you and will closely pattern their own behavior and beliefs after yours. Being a good example for your child means being responsible, loving and consistent with your child and all other members of your family.
Communicate Honestly and Openly:
Communication is one of the most important skills that you can teach your child. Even as a newborn, they will gaze into your eyes and listen to your soothing voice. They will watch and listen to you as you communicate with others to sort out concerns and problems in an understanding and patient way. They will learn how to express their feelings and be open and honest with you, if you lead the way.
Spend Time Together: It is important to spend a great deal of time with your children. Spending time with your children gives them the ability to know you and feel confident of your love. You can work full time and still spend quality time with your child daily. The important thing is that you devote the time just to your child, meeting both your needs together. It is up to you to direct your attention and shape your schedule that you can spend this quality time with your child.
